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« Reply #30 on: December 31, 2008, 05:38:34 PM »

I get it. The whole "be fruitful and multiply thing." Translates in to. "Have more children and pass along the religion." This is what the Muslims think. It's not about a burden on society you're worried most about, its the lack of people to carry on the faith. America will always have a society on it. It may not be what the forefathers envisioned or what your parents experienced or even what you think it should be but there will always be something here. The social norms will change but reproducing humans will still be here. 

No you don't get it.  I'm not worried about the be fruitful thing.  You keep wanting to tie it to religion but started the coversation with if we leave religion out then...

Your paragraph fundamentally missunderstands, not only my faith, but Christianity in general. 

My pros and cons where laid out quite plainly, perhaps we can talk about the simple, practical reasons, why shouldn't gay couples marry?

My argument is a culture needs future productive generations.  My theology, says God doesn't need anything, he can end it all now if it is his pleasure to do so.  My belief is that it will all end with much wailing and gnashing of teeth.  But this kind of talk should be in another thread.
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« Reply #31 on: January 01, 2009, 12:40:35 AM »

Why would they automatically have shorter life spans? HIV? Measurable increase in crime? How does that one work? They're aren't roaming bands of gays looking to steal or kill. I doubt we'll miss any future generations. They'll still be there. There are stll plenty of breeders in this country and that's not going to change if you allow homosexual couples to marry. Why would it? Increased cost? We have and always will have burdens on our resources, money included. Welfare cases, the incarcerated, dead beats, criminals of all sorts, tax evaders. Plenty of people taking and not putting back in. Homosexual couples will have just as much of a chance to add to the system as anyone else. With the added bonus of no offspring to burden that system in the future.

My argument still applies. You believe that for the country to maintain itself there needs to be future generations. Still sounds like an argument for be fruitful and multiply.

you continue to maintain the idea that it will destroy traditional families. I say traditional families will change with every generation for good or for ill.
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« Reply #32 on: January 05, 2009, 10:48:41 AM »

Thank you for your response.  I appreciate it.  It shows a certain amount of courtesy and respect, to take the time and effort to get to this point.  So again, thank you for your time and effort.  This is the part of the discussion that gets interesting.  Now that we have some firm differences can we continue the discussion to achieve better understanding of each others view point?  Let us see, shall we? 

Why would they automatically have shorter life spans? HIV?

Hmmm, I don't know why they have shorter life spans, just statistically they do.  This is a 'cost' to that lifestyle, not a judgment of it.  HIV could have something to do with it.  If so, it might be a reason for Gays to Marry and therefore not spread STDs, but that's a lot of speculation.  I'm simply stating for the moment that a shorter lifespan is a 'Con'.  We can dig deeper here.

 
Measurable increase in crime? How does that one work? They're aren't roaming bands of gays looking to steal or kill.

There are studies done on almost anything.  There are a few that measure crime and sexual orientation.  One should always question, that is be skeptical of studies, so this might be a place for us to digress.  The studies I've read, remove sexual crimes, and tally other crimes.  The % of crime is still a minority in both Hetero and Homo sexual groups, but it is 3 to 4 times higher (as a percentage of the population) in the homo-sexual group.   This is a 'Con'. 


I doubt we'll miss any future generations. They'll still be there. There are stll plenty of breeders in this country and that's not going to change if you allow homosexual couples to marry.
Actually, statistically, there aren't plenty of breeders.  If we didn't count immagration, the U.S.A. would be going in a negative direction in terms of population growth.  This is contrary to the structure of our culture which assumes a relatively high population growth. 


Why would it? Increased cost? We have and always will have burdens on our resources, money included. Welfare cases, the incarcerated, dead beats, criminals of all sorts, tax evaders. Plenty of people taking and not putting back in. Homosexual couples will have just as much of a chance to add to the system as anyone else. With the added bonus of no offspring to burden that system in the future.
Are you equating Homosexual couples to Welfare cases, the incarcerated, dead beats, criminals of all sorts, tax evaders, people taking and not putting back in?  Aren't those all things a healthy culture would try to reduce?

My argument still applies. You believe that for the country to maintain itself there needs to be future generations. Still sounds like an argument for be fruitful and multiply.
Hmmm, No future generations means the country does end or it's land is occupied by a culture that did have future generations.  I don't need the Bible to assert simple math.  Nor does it make the math incorrect just because the Bible states the same obvious thing.  So again, leaving religion out of it as you suggested, the obvious math should be enough to make my point.

you continue to maintain the idea that it will destroy traditional families. I say traditional families will change with every generation for good or for ill.
Yeah, I need a different phrase and a little more explanation.  I'm not worried that traditions change, or what we call a family can change.  I'm not worried about keeping 'traditional families' because I don't want things to change.  I assert that it is better for our country, and any culture, to have a population growth rate that is sustainable by renewable natural resources.   Further, I assert that a country is healthier the more it sets aside for future generations, rather than simply consuming resources.  Further, because of mankind's tendancy toward war, it is optimal to have the highest sustainable, productive, population growth rate for our current territory.  So, I'm not making a religious point, and I'm not against change.  I want change in a positive, growth direction. 

I can certainly discuss alternatives, but what works best, in context to the above healthy country, is a productive Mom and Dad team raising productive children who hold the expectation they will someday be productive Mom's and Dad's raising productive children.

Some simple math.  Most populations have a close to 1 to 1 male/female ratio.  It is simple math to show that polygamy or gender confusion on any but the most trivial level, causes a problem.  That is to say that doing something less, is less productive. 

It is obvious that herritage strengthens productive growth, and that anything less detracts.

I assert the best analysis for growth rate to avaible resource is local contributing to the larger, not distant government dictating local policy.   
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« Reply #33 on: January 06, 2009, 02:05:24 AM »

I assert the best analysis for growth rate to avaible resource is local contributing to the larger, not distant government dictating local policy.  
I understood everything you said until this part.  you lost me here.
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« Reply #34 on: January 06, 2009, 08:45:36 AM »

I understood everything you said until this part.  you lost me here.

I can some it up with.  I don't like federal housing projects. 

Let me know if that doesn't clear it up.
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« Reply #35 on: January 06, 2009, 04:26:46 PM »

I have been "afraid" to delve into this topic, simply because there is so much here and I risk repeating something that has already been said.

But, let me start off with this question:

Have you discussed that as a US Citizen, a homosexual person is entitled to the same rights as a heterosexual person? If you agree that they are both entitled to the sames rights, then I feel that gay couples should be allowed to get married.

Aeson - I have to bring religion in for a minute - as a Christian, I don't feel they should, it goes against the very nature that God intended for marriage. Enough said on that.

However, Crispen, despite agreeing with almost everything you have had to say as to why it is "unhealthy" for our country and the future prosperity, etc, to me it comes down to this....

Marriage as God intended is not marriage as this country views it. It is a social contract in the US, no longer just a religious ceremony. Granted, it holds huge religious, spiritual significance for a lot of people. But, I think by and large, it is not really viewed through the governments eyes as a religious ceremony, it is just a social contract between two people. So, that being said - I feel that a gay couple that has chosen to enter into the same social contract as a hetero couple should be entitled to the same benefits and rights as that hetero couple receives.

I have thougth about this topic for like 2 weeks, and have written up responses that I didn't post, because I didn't want to express myself incorrectly. I answer this question not from my Christian point of view - only my non-partisian, American point of view. And I don't answer it wanting to get drawn into a debate. This is simply how I feel about the topic.
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« Reply #36 on: January 07, 2009, 04:33:26 AM »

I think given time the homsexual community can assimilate into the culture. That's what they want to be able to do. Ash is right about equal rights. At one time blacks were thought of as less than human. They didn't get equal rights. Gays are asking for the same respect.

I suspect that some of the objection to them is not soley based in religion but in fear. Fear their children will catch "teh ghey". Fear that their marriage will be cheaped if someone they don't approve of is also married.

We have a greater concern. Do nothing children growing up to be do nothing adults. children are not pushed to excel any more(expect parents that want to cash in on a minute amount of talent). Our doctors come from other countries because our children want to be American Idols or a movie star. homosexual marriage is not something to fight over. If you want to secure the future then you need to make sure your children grow up to be productive. Keep your nose out of other people's bedrooms and your eye on your children's homework.

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« Reply #37 on: January 07, 2009, 09:35:10 AM »

I think given time the homsexual community can assimilate into the culture. That's what they want to be able to do. Ash is right about equal rights. At one time blacks were thought of as less than human. They didn't get equal rights. Gays are asking for the same respect.
Sure they can, but you completely by pass the question of should they.  I've writen pages of reasons why we should carefully consider the issue, with absolutly no response. 

Let me answer the 'equal rights' slant.  We should discriminate based on behavior, and not discriminate based on skin color.  Their is a huge difference between the civil rights movement, and the gay agenda.  The gay agenda simply uses this tactic, amoung others to promote their cause.   So let me quickly explain behavior vs skin color.  Skin color is an artificial distinction, I can give you pictures of the skin of many different people of many different colors and it would be meaningless in terms of selecting people for jobs, or privileges, or disabilities.  Behavior is different, if you give me cards of different people with various behaviors I have information for selecting or discriminating.  The extremes are easy, I discriminate against the Arsonist and don't place him where he is tempted to commit arson.  This is a correct response to the behavior.  It doesn't matter if they only burn buildings that are empty or any other excuse.  We don't listen to how that's not fair, how they should have equal access to flamible structures as non-arsonist, etc...  That would be silly.  It becomes more difficult when we have more subtle abnormalities.  Yes, being gay is an abnormality.  This is not an insult, I also have behaviors which are abnormal.  (When you come to know me better you'll learn I concider being normal an insult.  But that's another thread) 

So if we knew nothing about a couple except sexual behavior, and we had to bet the future on one of just two couples, we would select the hetero couple, and discriminate against the homo couple.  This should be obvious, please let me know if you don't follow this logic.  This is based on behavior, and should not be confused as a civil rights issue.    If one makes the scenario more complicated, the best one can say is that the homo couples are not too much of a drain as long as there are enough hetero couples (you said breeders) to take up the slack. 

So it comes down to what behavior do we encourage and what behavior to we discourage.  I assert that the social, legal, cultural, encouragements that are given to 'the breeders' be reserved for 'the breeders' and that anything else is a mistake.   

I suspect that some of the objection to them is not soley based in religion but in fear. Fear their children will catch "teh ghey". Fear that their marriage will be cheaped if someone they don't approve of is also married.
Naw, you're simply not listing. I have no fear of this behavior.  I have friends which suffer from this temptation.  I'm there for them, even though they know I hold a contrary world view, they value my friendship.  Although, I might lose some friends if they read this thread.  Sad

We have a greater concern. Do nothing children growing up to be do nothing adults. children are not pushed to excel any more(expect parents that want to cash in on a minute amount of talent). Our doctors come from other countries because our children want to be American Idols or a movie star. homosexual marriage is not something to fight over. If you want to secure the future then you need to make sure your children grow up to be productive. Keep your nose out of other people's bedrooms and your eye on your children's homework.
This is interesting to me.  You seem to say I have no right to discuss the behavior of gays, but you have the right to condem the breeders as poor parents.  Do you see the irony?  In the same paragraph you site a weakness in our country which I mostly agree with, but promoting a behavior that is contrary to a next generation that excels will not fix the problem you site.  I personally have four boys well on their way to excel in this next generation.  I don't want their contribution, diluted by the lazy or the non-contributors.
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